Where can I get real information about midlife pregnancy?

I need to be able to show the reality, not the "many more women are having babies in the 40's and if they can do it so can you hype". I want to find information about the real risks and dangers - anything to get my husband to understand why this is not something I want to do. I am 45 with a 25 year history of clinical depression. I still ovulate regularly but I was told 5 years ago that my eggs are getting old (whatever that means). That was just based on an FSH and estradiol blood test. Thanks.Where can I get real information about midlife pregnancy?lol i know i hate hearing your eggs are old too... but the thing is you are born with all the eggs you will ever have so they are old if you are 45...no idea how sperm that is made every day is any better when the man is 45..and starting to have midlife problems as well..lol....anyway look in your community and see if there are fertility clinics the best source of info on pregnancy can be found there...